Epidote wants to help you change.  Not everyone listens to their soul clearly.  With the help of epidote, your soul presents you with the learning experiences and the directions to become the person you wanted to be in this life time and it does not take no for an answer.  It will bring you the same lesson again and again until you make the choice that your soul agrees with causing the change your soul wants to the path you are on.  This is a very insistent mineral.